blogs are not made for online fighting. that's myspace.
i was thinking while i was driving tonight, and i couldn't think of a single person who has been what i would consider "100% loyal" to me that isn't in my family. i kept thinking because that seemed crazy to me and i've come to the conclusion that everyone makes mistakes (myself included...obviously) it may seem like we weren't being loyal or sticking by someone, but maybe that isn't the case... and i've decided a lot of people have been loyal to me because i don't think true loyalty lies in never making a mistake, never taking someone else's side, or never being away from someone. i think true loyalty lies in coming back. it lies in in admitting the mistake, and in trying to make up for it.
i had a great christmas this year. i enjoy being around the people i love so much. it's so relaxing to spend time with them. i hope everyone else had a wonderful holiday!
i have to cut myself off at this point because i don't feel like going on a tangent about anything else.
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hey valerie - maybe loyalty lies in the heart--not in the actions that play out our weaknesses. it's impossible to know the hearts of everyone you love (unless of course you are God) so it's often hard to discern true loyalty. in time you will discover that old friendships and connections may fade, but true loyalty revives them just when you need them most. just my 2 cents. love you, val...you are special.
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